Nigerian actress, Tonto Charity Dikeh, says she has thought it a wise decision to decide now to let go of any hard feelings she has harboured against her ex-husband Olakunle Churchill.
According to the controversial entertainer, her decision is based on the need for both of them to come together and agree to take care of their child, King Andre.
In an Instagram interview, Tonto Dikeh said the time is right for her to make peace with her former husband basically for the sake of their child.
“A man I love and respect always, talked to me about forgiveness and I have come to realize that forgiveness is not about the next person.
I know that forgivessness is not about the next person but the explanation I got recently really wowed me.
It says I have forgiven you not because you have to be forgiven, I have forgiven you because I do not want to put myself in a place of stagnation when it comes to growth, I do not want to put myself in a place of stagnation when it comes to love, i do not want to put myself in a place of warship, progressing, my career.
Forgiveness is a whole lot and I only just realized that the bible says that if we do not forgive, God cannot forgive us. All these things are in the bible but it never really made an impact to me until someone really explained it.
So today I would tell you that for me it comes really easy. I forgive alot but I just don’t like to get provoked by the things that you do after it. I think forgiveness is an essential for ones growth”.
Asked if there is anyone she would never forgive in her life, she said;
“As at this moment, there is nobody I have not forgiven as of today 26 July 2020.
As of today, there is nobody I hold a grudge on but there are people who I have forgiven but I would never have a relationship with again”.
Asked if she has forgiven her son’s father, she responded;
“Oh yes, especially him. I forgive him and wish him the best, for my son’s sake. I do. Why not?”